Most people fail to achieve their goals, not for lack of inner capacity but because they have mindsets that kept them down despite how hard they tried, failed to set their goals properly, poorly prioritized their activities, procrastinated important tasks, got distracted by the noise in their environment and allowed temporary setbacks to keep them down.
Incidentally, we all came into this world with the tendencies for these flaws and anybody who reaches his/her goal consistently has gained mastery over them. I know how reaching your goals matter to you, your family and your future. But without taking care of these flaws, you will still set big goals, fast and pray fervently, make confessions of faith; but remain on the same spot.
Know this for a fact because I used to be like you. I used to be that person with so many task in front of me; without knowing what to do first. I used to push what I should do now for a ‘better time’ until it became too late. I used to be emotionally traumatized because of setback in my relationship. Just like you, I used to leave the task before me to ‘just check my WhatsApp status’ until 2 hours is gone scrolling aimlessly on social media.